BEHIND-THE-SCENES: A streetwear collection photoshoot

Agency worker by day, model by night.
Actually, we should really scratch that second line. Let me make it clear that I am no professional model or anywhere near one. But, I occasionally get asked to act as one, just like last weekend’s photoshoot (Sept. 24), where my first statement can be applied. It was great to say the least, since it also served as a mini-reunion with some high school friends and a chance to meet new people.

I easily agreed to this gig, simply because I was asked by my friend Yuri Suga, and sister Cenna Carlos – the creative minds behind this shoot for their soon-to-be digitally launched, start-up clothing line, and street wear collection based in Japan. I can’t giveaway too much details about it, but I’m excited for them. No doubt! It’s definitely something to look forward to based from the plans I heard from them and of course, the output of the shoot.


The shoot took place at B-Side, The Collective Plaza along Malugay St. just in the Makati City area. It’s known to be a local hangout for hip-hop enthusiasts. A very street-urban venue where people can get down as local DJs, bands, rappers and MCs perform late night for the crowd. It can get rowdy there, which is why we tried to start shooting while not too much people were around.

Behind-The-Scenes. While waiting for my turn, I took some photos to personally document the shoot. As many of you know, my main phone’s camera is unreliable because it randomly doesn’t work from time to time. Good thing I had my OPPO A57 phone along, which never seizes to amaze me with its ability to take great photos with its 13MP back camera, even at night in a low-light area like B-Side. I personally love the auto-focus feature that really helps capture the subject, and just the overall camera.

Anyway, I’ll just let the photos speak for itself. Check it out!


That’s Ytle Cruzado, one of my co-models during that night and effortlessly rocked it. We met before already at another shoot back in 2014. Ytle is a friend and fellow dance-team member of my sister from college, all the way ’til now. Check out their active alumni crew’s page for updates: Aftermath. They’re out there making some serious noise in the local dance community.


Then we have Kim Chen, my “Korean brother” and other co-model who I only met that night for the shoot. He’s part Korean, part Filipino, and is also a friend of my sister from her previous work. Also, Chen doesn’t actually smoke. The use of the cigarette is for the purpose of the shot, though he may or may not have tried a few hits. Moving on…


I didn’t want any behind-the-scenes photos of my solo shots, but here I asked my friends who came along to snap a few during the group shots.


Of course, my friends Em, Kevin and Mica took advantage and fooled around with the phone camera. I believe they tested the beauty feature in this photo. Again, definitely not bad for a low-light photo! I don’t take much selfies, but I do know that the front camera of the OPPO phone is top-notch. 16MPs? That’s impressive!


That’s a wrap. Just passed midnight, we finished and wrapped up the successful shoot! Of course, I have to give it up for my old highschool friend, Gill Salgado, who was our amazing photographer for the shoot. He made it less awkward for me to do my job since I knew him and I know how good he is at his craft. Check out more of his work here: gillsalgado.tumblr.comSpecial thanks to Kim Eusebio and Em Romero for tagging along who will be posting behind-the-scenes photos and a video teaser. And of course, our friends Mica Ortiz, Mavey Dolot, and Kevin Ortega for tagging along as well and helping out at the shoot.

Official photos from this shoot will be out soon! Stay updated and be on the lookout.

SPOTLIGHT: “SA PLATO’s” signature-specialty chicken wings are a must-try!

Get’em while they’re hot!
There’s a brand new resto on the radar and making a hype on the streets of Calamba, Laguna. Word is, they’re serving a classic favorite: their signature-specialty chicken wings! After a raging first week, this chillspot has already stamped a solid footprint and a promising future for their business, backed up by multiple rave food reviews… and they’re just getting started!


Opening day last July 21, 2017 – Photo taken from Sa Plato Facebook page

“Saan ka nga ba kakain? Edi, Sa Plato!”
Deciding where to eat is one of the hardest things to do, especially when you’re not alone. Fortunately for us, that problem is now solved! What started off as only jokes and random ideas between a group of friends, has suddenly materialized into what is now known as, “Sa Plato” – your one-stop shop to what we now call, “the home of the best chicken wings in Calamba!” Co-founded by the joint forces of three passionate and business-minded individuals, “Poy”, “Shu”, and “Ton” (POYSHUTON), the resto finally opened its doors to the public last July 21, 2017 and is now officially at your service every Monday – Friday, from 11AM – 9PM!

July 28, 2017. Since we couldn’t make it to the opening, as support to our store owner friends, some good’ol college mates and I made it a point to check out the place, pronto! So I’ll be filling you in on how it all went down, chilling at this new local food joint literally from day to night. And of course, I’ll be giving our unfiltered verdicts on what their service has to offer!


Opening day last July 21, 2017 – Photo taken from Sa Plato Facebook page

Location & ambience. If you know the street heading to Letran-Calamba in Bucal, then you probably know or have heard of Dap-Dap St. That’s where you’ll find Sa Plato. Walk or take a trike – it’s easily accessible coming from the highway. Just look for a small white-picket fenced storefront! This specific area was the popular “place to be”, back when I was still in college at Letran-Calamba because of its nightlife. So walking down there was pretty nostalgic to say the least. Though I’ve heard the area has died down after some time, I’ve got a good feeling it’ll claim it’s name again as a hangout hot-spot, now that this food joint is up and running.

Immediately after arriving at the store, I got a feel of that casual and laid-back atmosphere. Though, I’m sure that vibe can change depending on the time due to their largely populated student consumers. Nevertheless, the service is quick, the staff are all approachable and friendly, so don’t be shy to strike up a conversation, even on a busy hour.

The place is small yet comfortable and can accommodate about 20-30 people on a full house, with the help of a few tables and chairs out front as well. Admittedly, the store owners mentioned the interior and exterior design is still a work in progress. But just like their food, they’re cooking up an amazing design blueprint on top of their ongoing fixations to upgrade the resto’s overall look and service. So don’t be fooled by the unfinished appearance, because their mouth-watering menu makes up for it!
Favored and flavorful. As mentioned, this resto’s specialty is their signature take on the classic favorite and fried tender chicken wings. They come in five flavors as seen above, with rice. You can also order add-ons like gravy or garlic mayo dips (recommended), plus unlimited iced tea. I ordered the “hot chicks” aka, spicy wings! It was noted that the “winnie” (honey) and their original recipe, “pesto” flavored wings are their current best-sellers, which easily became our top two favorites at the end of the day.

The serving is already pretty generous, but be prepared to break your diet and order an extra cup of rice or two (especially if you got the spicy wings like me), because the chicken’s flavors are too good too savor with only one cup of rice.

What’s great is their wings are not too oily – something I’m personally picky about when it comes to fried food, so that was a definite plus for me. But still get ready to get a bit messy with your hands, because I’m sure the hardcore chicken-lovers will dig right in, in a hot-minute! I wasn’t able to try their liempo (grilled pork belly), but I heard their pieces are guaranteed to satisfy your inner meat-lover cravings.
Their current menu doesn’t have desserts for now, but they do offer “Cookie Mastah” chocolate oatmeal cookies over the counter, worth trying for only P20.

Vision and verdict. After a strong start, talking to the store owners solidified my thoughts on where their business could take them in the future. The potential is evident behind the quality service, which runs on the staff’s high motivation, positive customer feedback, and heavy support system, as explained by the store owners. In fact, their staff is actually filled with friend volunteers who want to contribute to the growing success. Parts of the current design elements like their main signage and wall installations, were all practically recycled from a past business. Those factors to me, along with the delicious food, all reflect the positive appeal of their overall business advocacy, and I believe that is what can take them far.
Looking to the future, they’ve set high goals and envision a revamped resto design, larger space, and possibly opening up branches in nearby areas like Los Banos and Cabuyao. They wish to expand their reach and appeal not only to students and the youth, but families as well. I don’t wanna give away too much, but I will tease some promising savory menu upgrades and exciting events to look forward to that will showcase the local art and music scene in the near future! If that’s not enough, CLICK HERE for a closer insider. And of course, for more updates and support, make sure to show some love for the fellas behind Sa Plato by liking their Facebook page.

So the next time you and your friends are wondering where to eat… well, you already know!
Good eats and good vibes,

PS. In case you’re wondering how our day ended (or should I say night), I’ll let these last couple of photos do the talking…

We joked around saying after business hours, “Sa Plato” turns into “Sa Baso“, if you know what we mean… But kidding aside, the place is also the perfect tambay or hangout spot. Huge thanks to the team! We’ll definitely be coming back for more!

Why you should hit up this lit Makati food park — “Buendia FOOD by the COURT”

Eat, play, drink, repeat, again & again. That’s exactly what you’ll first see on the lot’s walls and find yourself doing when you hit up the literally lit, Buendia Food By The Court! Established in January 2017, this food park catering more to millenials with its street and youthful vibe, is located at Sen. Gil J. Puyat Ave. cor Bautista St. in Makati. It was made as an extension to the already functioning basketball court way back when.
It’s very accessible to those in the central Makati and Taft area, that only requires a short jeep or bus ride (or even a walk) coming from either end. Many have already heard of, or have gone to this place due to its rage on the “what’s hot” radar for food junkies ever since it opened. And there’s no questioning why! It’s a perfect chillspot to unwind at after a long day of work or school. Plus, you can score delicious food and drinks all for affordable prices!

We’re a bit late on the buzz, so it was only recently when we checked out the food park ourselves. But we know we’re not the only ones! Also, a lot has changed and been added since their opeinng, so if you haven’t been yet, then here’s why you need to treat you and your friends at Buendia Food By The Court.
Choices Galore. One of the hardest things (for me) is deciding on what to eat, especially when you’ve got a wide range of exceedingly satisfying food choices (and a huge appetite). At BFBTC, they’ve got grub fit for anyone’s taste buds. Whether you’re craving for some Mexican spice flavors, an all-American or Canadian-style dish, or maybe some classic Chinese, Indonesian or Japanese cuisines – there’s something for everyone.

Due to our sched that day, and since we really just randomly thought of checking out the area, we didn’t go all-out with the food. But I did come up with a game plan for the next time I come back here. And you can too! All of the joints you can find at the food park are shown below. For more details on their updated menus, click here: Must Try: Buendia Food by The Court in Makati (
Budget Friendly. (Above) I ordered a 6-foot chicken teriyaki sub sandwich, my sister got a pinoy favorite and relatively large serving of lugaw with gulaman, while my brother also got the filipino caldereta dish with rice, a side of sweetened bananas and iced tea. Everything we ordered was less than P400, and came with a convincing aftertaste telling us we need to come back again!

Fresh Finds. I noticed a stall that had a consistent line-up: BMW (Burgers Meet Wings). They have a best-seller of mini-burgers in different colors! I heard they also have a monster-sized 8-inch burger (for sharing of course… maybe). Another eye-catcher I got interested in was the Brothers’ Blends frappes in a vial! How cool is that? Aside from the taste, everything (including the area) looks #InstagramWorthy. Plus points for that, no doubt!

The photos below were what my elder sister and her friends ordered before when they ate at BFBTC, just to show you a bit more of the food they offer.

Chill Ambiance.  I’m all about the vibes given off by a certain place, and if I dig it, then I can kick it. BTFBC definitely gives off that chillaxing feel I look for. We arrived there just a bit after it opens (5:00PM) so there wasn’t too much people at first. Though I imagine it can get rowdy and loud once it’s packed, when the night falls and the hanging lights are turned on, you still get that “laid-back, feet up, with a cold beer in your hand” kind of feel.
I highly recommend you try and get a spot up top on the roofdeck where you’ll find more tables and chairs, plus a great view overlooking the compound and the Makati cityscape. If I were to suggest an additional attraction to the food park though, I think all that’s missing is a live band to complete the whole experience! But even without one, music is still played there so no need to worry about that.
So if I still haven’t convinced you, well I suggest you just try going there yourselves and give it your verdict. Let me know! As for us? Like what they have written on the wall, we’ll definitely be coming back again and again…

Sun – Mon:
5:00PM – 12AM, Fri & Sat: 5:00PM – 2:00AM (select merchants)

Make sure to support them by visiting and liking their Facebook page for more updates: Buendia Food By The Court and follow them on Instagram: @buendiafoodbythecourt

Artspiration Stimulation: “iART FEST MANILA 2017”

AFCJuly 20, 2017. Being art enthusiasts, likewise creators, my brother and I were pretty hyped for this free admission 4-day event, iArt Fest Manila 2017! Some of the best local artists were set to showcase and exhibit their original artwork at the World Trade Center, ranging from traditional, to digital art, craftwork, and even musical performances! Sadly we didn’t catch the live bands when we were there, but we were able to witness ongoing activities like contest giveaways, capsule classes, demos, on-the-spot painting and digital drawing. Did I mention there’s also food and refreshments?
Participants in the event include Ismael Figueroa Esber, Kristen Uy Ramos, Rick Armando, Baroyskie Arts, Ernilo Germino, Sam Penaso, Mel Araneta, Fredi Agunoy, Joanna Liza, Kuatro Kantos, GWAPINGS NG KOMIKS, SIKLAB, 302B, Levi Batara, Marlon Lucenara, Jo Anna Vocalan, Joemarie Sanclaria Chua, Suicidal Genius, Pilipinas Street Plan, Room One Eleven, Graphic Artist Philippines, TUP-FAD Creatives, Betsin-artparasites, STYLES STROKES & SKETCHES SOCIETY, and Yolkers Collab.

It was a bit late in the afternoon on the second day of the event, but just before office hours ended when we arrived at the venue. Good thing we pre-registered to avoid the long line-ups! Upon registration, instead of an ID or wristband, we were given cards that we can easily just tap on through the entrance and exits throughout the 4 days. Props to the event organizers who thought of this entrance setup. Very convenient!

We were under a bit of a time-constraint because we didn’t want to get caught in the rush hour. Plus, I had a dinner planned with friends later on in the evening and another meet-up with a different circle of friends afterwards, so it was a pretty hectic day for me. Nevertheless, we were able to experience and enjoy this specific event in just the right amount of time!
The first things you’d see upon entering the venue were displays of different clothing, supplements, accessories, etc. that you can purchase. We didn’t pay too much attention to them though because we were hungry for visual stimulation. There was a car show going on simultaneously which was pretty cool too. Nothing too out of the blue, so we went straight to the art exhibits. A great crowd of creative individuals welcomed us. One of the first exhibits we stopped at was the Betsin-ArtParasites‘ where I got to talk to some of the members of their talented team. I’ve followed their well-recognized facebook page for quite some time, so it was great to get some of their insight on their work, face-to-face.

Visual Journey. Walking around, seeing the gallery of artwork and crafts these local artists made, it’s impossible not to get inspired to just create something! My brother and I were visualizing ourselves maybe being an exhibitor someday at an event like this – definitely one on our goals list. We actually went to a similar event not too long ago also in Makati, called Art In The Park at Salcedo Village. The vibes were just as great, the only difference is this exhibit was indoors.
Here’s my brother Sam, at one of the photo exhibits. To this day, it amazes me how people are able to compose and capture visuals of life that are so powerful and enticing. As a photo-hobbyist, I’m always eager to learn how different photographers go about shooting, speciffically street or candid photography.
And here are more paintings – retro style. I really admire traditional painters, like the man I got to talk to behind these pieces of art. Painting, whether acrylic, watercolor, etc. has always been a struggle for me. Though, fun fact: a painting I made back when I was only in pre-school actually made it to the Burnaby Art Museum, back in Canada! Now, if only I continued my interest in painting, maybe I’d be alot better.

Conspired Culture. Another thing I really appreciated, aside from being able to draw inspiration to create with events like this is that, I’m also able to learn about our filipino culture. So much can be said and portrayed with a mere photo, painting, or sketch of an individual. From the artwork I saw, it just proves how rich and vibrant our culture is. Through the artwork, I analyzed patterns that showed how much of an influence other cultures have injected into us, and how it has shaped and enhanced our culture now- something to be proud of. I think each work of art has several different stories worth sharing. It all depends on the way you perceive it.

If you yourself is an artisan, art enthusiast, a photographer, or even an aspiring craftsman who wants to learn more about the artistic local community, then I highly recommend you go to iArt Fest Manila 2017 – the kind of event you’d definitely want to experience!
And of course, when it came time for us to leave, we couldn’t help ourselves but get some sort of souvenirs from the event. As support to the local artists, we purchased a few small things to-go from Yolker’s Collab and Betsin-ArtParasites. It kinda sucks we couldn’t stay longer, or even dropby again during the last days of the event. But we know there will be more art fests to come and we’re already looking forward to them! Lookout, because who knows. We might have our own booth next time! #goalz

Solid Surprises

July 14, 2017.
 When seeing each other is not as easy as it was back when we were in school, leisure get-togethers become more of a luxury. That’s why making the best time out of our own busy schedules is a necessity to keep a circle strong (especially in your “mid-twenties”, if you know what I’m talking about).

Eversince highschool, birthday gimicks have always been a thing for us. And it’s funny thinking back every year we’d talk about how long we think these surprises will last until we stop doing them for each other. Clearly, it’s still “a thing” and I doubt it’ll end anytime soon. But I think it’s great! It gives us more opportunities to just bond, catch up with each other, and unwind to say the least. Just like what happened at our good friend Yuri’s [insert age here] birthday bash.

I’m not good at surprises. My history tells it all. Which is why I’m usually not the initiator, but a contributor. I do want to point out that the many balloons you’ll see in these photos was a collaborative effort of awkward pumping by Mavey and I, with the direction of Mica. It was hard work, haha. Design and coordination, courtesy of #TeamTimeTravel (PLUG. PLUG. PLUG. Click here for more info).

I won’t go into detail about what went down, but one highlight for me was the surprise-within-a-surprise they did for Keng and I (June birthdays) that I had no idea about, at all! I thought our birthdays were over, but they managed to sneak in a surprise for us as well which I appreciated a lot (except when they sang happy birthday to us – I hate that, haha awkward AF)!

Look familiar? Here’s a throwback of the surprise they did for us back in 2014! Even with being consistent with the surprises yearly, you’d think we’d already expect it by now, but we always somehow manage to surprise each other either way.

tumblr_inline_n79dh5rFsK1qa3upytumblr_inline_n79fil57ne1qa3upyBack to 2017… I loved the cake though – what a “sweet message”. Haha thanks Mavey.

Throughout the night, more friends unexpectedly showed up like Banjo, Niko and Trisha. What even is this? A surprise galore? Haha everything turned out better than I expected.

Growing up has its downsides, because due to “adulthood”, some of us couldn’t stay long or even come thru. Some are in other parts of the planet. And some may have even grown apart through the years. Yet still, these kind of events have an ability to bring us together in a way. Being in the present, I’m just thankful we’ve kept a solid circle that continues to grow and flourish, even if we don’t see each other that often.


The signature “Yuri peace sign” pose.

I think I speak for all of us when I say we’ve come a long way from being just highschool and college friends, to co-dance group members, and to some, even being co-workers now. I’m guilty for not always being present. But looking passed the constant struggles of a twenty-something millenial, at the end of the day, growing up isn’t so bad when you have a few close friends you know you can always fall back to. Cheers to another year of growth!

“We just want to be accepted.” — Sama-Bajaus (BRIDGING THE GAP: Unheard Stories from the Lives of the Poor – Part 2)

Click here to read Part 1 of “Bridging The Gap: Unheard Stories of the Lives of the Poor”

Our eventful trip started early and it was getting close to the middle of our first day. That meant it was almost my favorite time of day – chow time! But for some odd reason, I wasn’t feeling too hungry. Maybe because I was already filled with so much food for thought from the first few activities? Whatever it was, I let everything digest as we left the barangay hall of Pahinga Sur, and went off to our next location – their community garden.
FRUITS OF YOUR LABOR. I’m a firm believer of the saying “no hardwork goes unrewarded.” As long as it is pure, consistent, and with good motive, in time you will only find yourself with nothing but positive results.

With the sun shining bright, it was a perfect time to soak up some Vitamin D, and we got to do that while we had a short walk to Brgy. Pahinga Sur’s community garden, owned and maintained by the Pantawid Pamilya beneficiaries themselves.
The beneficiaries can proudly say that their well-kept garden is a product of what they learned during their FDS on Bio-Intensive Gardening.

“We learned how to maintain this garden. We chose what to plant. We do the harvesting. And then we can choose to either sell our produce or we can use it for our own household needs.” – Anna Umandap

This to me, along with the testimonies of some of the other beneficiaries back at the barangay hall, is evidence that the FDS are not only successful, but the beneficiaries are really striving for development to sustain their livelihood.

That brings me to one of the other core programs of DSWD, the Sustainable Livelihood Program (SLP). It invests in building the capacity of people in a community to engage in socio-economic activities, so they can stand on their own. The SLP gives employment facilitation by teaching technical skills, giving occupational guidance and job refferals. For the aspiring entrepreneurs and businessmen, there’s the micro-enterprise development where a capital is given to help start small businesses.
The Project Development Officer of SLPs in Brgy. Pahinga Sur, Kson Lee Piedad, explained how they determined what programs best fit their community and how it has improved their livelihood.

“Actually, yesterday the training for security guards finished. That’s guaranteed employment. They just have to wait three weeks, then our partner agencies will absorb them. When I first started here, we conducted a survey asking what kind of training the majority of them are interested in; if they want to start a business. From there, we formulated possible projects we can do. In 2015, we identified that food and beverages services and security guard training are what they wanted. Only recently, the security guard training materialized. For the food and beverages services, majority want to become waiters. We already have 50 graduates from the food and beverages trainees. The difference is, we don’t force them to enter the agencies offering jobs. We tell them it’s their free will to choose if that’s really what they want, or not. 5-10 out of the 50 entered that industry, while the rest chose other industries, like manufacturing.” – Kson Lee Piedad

Walking back to our van, it was reassuring to know and see that with the guidance of DSWD, the beneficiaries are now able to reap the fruits of their labor on their own two feet.

Like our first stop in Dolores, we were then off to visit another successful project funded by DSWD under the Kalahi-CIDSS program. A two-classroom school building at Macasaet National High School in Brgy. Pahinga Norte, Candelaria.
FROM THE GROUND UP. To get to the top, you must start from the bottom. The pursuit to even just progress can be the most challenging, but when things get tough making you feel like giving up, the most important thing is to remember why you started.

Entering the gate of the school, I immediately sensed that typical rowdy school environment. There were students running around, playing games, while some were in class with their teachers trying to get back their attention, as some students were distracted by us visiting. Students waved at us from the windows of their classroom. I waved back with a smile, thinking how great it is for them to have a place to study, even in one of the poorest and most typhoon-affected areas nationwide.
As told by Anna Umandap, a 4Ps beneficiary who also accommodated us at the garden, the two-classroom building was literally the result of blood, sweat and tears. Especially for Anna, who introduced herself as the barangay-elected Project Preparation Team Head.

“Our community chose between building an open canal, an evacuation center, or this – classrooms. We chose the classrooms for the school… All of the work goes through me. I run and assist. I do the paperwork. I’m the secretary for the barangay… with everything that happens here, I’m the one accountable for.”

Though everyone from the barangay who helped make this project successful, are volunteers, that didn’t mean they don’t get anything in return. As they told us more about what they went through to build the classrooms from scratch, you can tell by the tone of their voice and faces, that it was definitely a test of strength, patience, and will power to continue on.

“To tell you the truth, there were times we wanted to give up. But we thought of all the help [funds and training] given to us. We started it, so we should finish it. No matter what. So that we’ll know that all the hardwork we put in is worth it in the end, all for the future of our children.”

They found out that if they were able to accomplish building those classrooms from the ground up, they are willing to do it again, and more, knowing that everything they do for the community will benefit them in the longrun, even if it isn’t financial support.
Like Mario Gonzalez from the FDS visit at Brgy. Pahinga Sur, education remains the top priority for their entire community. That’s why they prioritized this project: to accommodate more students – their children – in hopes that they too, learn the value of education and perseverance to get them on top of their dreams.

It was now goodbye Candelaria, and hello Lucena City. We went on to Barangay Dalahican where we got to meet a Sama-Bajau community during one of their beadmaking skills training. This is in line with another project, currently being pilot-tested by DSWD.
ONE AND THE SAME. Tall or short. Black or white. Single or married. Rich or poor. It doesn’t matter. At the end of the day, we are all humans wanting the same thing: to live a happy, purposeful life with the ones we love. They say that you should always be nice because everyone is fighting a battle you don’t know about, and I believe that to be true. This however can be difficult to do, especially when you come across a stranger that is different – an outcast from the rest.

I remember riding a filled jeep one day in Makati City. We stopped at a red light. Suddenly, an unruly juvenile climbed on and hung from the back of the jeep. As he made his way inside the jeep, he left small crumpled envelopes on each of our laps. The jeep driver kept telling him to get off, but he wouldn’t listen. The boy had dark-brown messy hair, streaked with what looked like black car oil. There was dirt all over his body like he’s been getting smoked by vehicles on the road all day. With his barefeet, wearing a wornout oversized shirt, and ragged basketball shorts, he sat down waiting at the back of the jeep while murmuring words I couldn’t comprehend. I saw him start to collect his envelopes, so I quickly put my spare change in and gave it back. The person beside me however, didn’t even touch the envelope so it fell on the floor. The youngster got quite upset upon seeing it, and ended up spitting on the man, slapping his face, while yelling words I couldn’t understand again. With everyone shocked and scared, the kid jumped off the jeep and ran away.

With a negative connotation, they said he was “just another Bajau”.

Though I’ve had similar experiences in my hometown, this particular incident stuck in my mind. I was bothered. Because I knew what happened that day, was just the tip of the iceberg. Behind the actions of that young boy, is a much deeper story waiting to be heard… That’s why I was a bit hesitant arriving at the Little Haus Community Center, where unexpectedly, I was greeted by a group of Bajaus passionately hard at work making bead accessories.

“The government did an assessment. Though it is their [Bajaus] personal choice if they want to go back to their rightful provinces, as much as possible, our advocacy is to welcome them with open arms by providing livelihood programs and interventions.” – Analiza Dano

What our resource person, Ms. Analiza was talking about, is the Comprehensive Program for Sama-Bajau. Its aim is to reduce their vulnerabilities, give access to basic services, eliminate their practice of begging on the streets, and at the same time nurture their rich culture. The beadmaking is just one of the skill trainings being provided. They are also included in the Modified Conditional Cash Transfer (MCCT) program that holds monthly FDS teaching them values, importance of health and education, and strengthening family relations.

Contrary to what many believe, the Sama-Bajau are actually very peace-loving, and highly skilled nomads, particularly in fishing. Hence their tribal name, “Bajau”, which translates to “man of the seas” or “sea gypsies”. Did you know they have a different name, everytime they move to a new area? One of the main reasons why they leave the land they originated from and constantly travel from one place to another is because of pirate attacks. When conflict arises, they do whatever to stay away from it.
“There was a man who was killed and they [pirates] stole his boat. It happened to us. We used to live on our boat. After fishing, we came back to land and they were waiting for us so they can steal our fish and boat. They killed our father. One of our other siblings were killed too. That’s why we left Zamboanga. We were only kids back then, but I still remember it all. We don’t want to go back there…”

That’s what one of the beneficiaries, Magdalena Rosali spoke up about. Their lives depended on a life on the sea. When you take that away, you basically take away their home, their livelihood, and are left with nothing but fear. If these traumatic events are what commonly happens to the Bajaus, it’s no wonder they end up on the streets begging and doing whatever they can just to meet their basic needs.

So how have their lives changed since being under the Comprehensive Sama-Bajau program? Magdalena’s sister Nolima Rosali spoke in behalf of all of the Sama-Bajau there, and said:
“The change wasn’t hard. We learned how to live a better life like everyone here with their support. Just like now, we learned how to make these [bead accessories]. We can sell these and now we have money for our needs. They taught us how to write our names…”

Ms. Analiza shared that before, all of the Sama-Bajau beneficiary’s documents were filled with thumbprints, instead of their names and signatures. Now with the help of DSWD, they have certified documents with their permanent names.

“We learned how to respect other people… We felt a big change in our lives. We used to beg for money all day long and get about P200 daily. Our mother would scavenge. I would use some of the money for my studies. When DSWD helped us, we were given a home so we can study. With your help, my two children are now in school and we don’t beg anymore. Even until now. We’re occupied with what we’re doing here now. That’s why we’re grateful. We’re thankful for all of you.”Nolima Rosali

It was enlightening knowing that these people are now in good hands. After hearing the Rosali sister’s stories, my negative perspective on the Bajau community changed tremendously. I can say that Bajau’s are all just misunderstood. They are vibrant, colorful personalities – just like their sense of style (as seen with Nolima). They are passionate, hard-working, and just love life.
Aside from the beadmaking, the program also trains them to make rugs and rags, rosaries (which are being sold abroad), and bags. Did you know Bajau’s are also known to be naturally effective sales-talkers? It goes hand-in-hand with the crafts they’ve learned to make.

There’s one more Bajau I was able to talk to and I was really moved by what she had to say. Her name is Jasmin. Together with her cute son, she told her story about how hesitant she was to go to school when she had the chance to, with DSWD’s help. She had a hard time because she was teased by other students because of the way she looked, the way she talked… but she was determined to learn. Though she was only able to finish grade 5 in elementary school, she said she’s still thankful for the help she got and would continue studying if she had the chance again. But for now, she chose to stop her schooling to raise and earn money for her son. From being another beggar on the streets, she is now happy with where she is now, being supported by DSWD. The last thing she said was this:
“We slowly learned to stop begging on the streets, because we now know that it’s wrong. We are thankful that we were welcomed here. We just wanted to be accepted. We were accepted here. And we [Bajaus] accept all of you too.”

Before leaving, the Rosali sisters were teaching us some words from their native tongue, Sinama (the language of Sama-Bajaus) and welcomed us back to their “home”. I made sure to buy something they made, just as a small help for them. I bought this rosary that I saw was made by Magdalena. So I showed it to her and her sister Nolima on my way out. They joyfully laughed and said, “magsukul (thank you)!”
Photo courtesy of Godly Camitan.

BRIDGING THE GAP: Unheard Stories from the Lives of the Poor (DSWD Trip to Quezon, Learning Visit) – Part 1

To be honest with you, I’ve been non-stop brainstorming on how I could (or should) approach writing about my extraordinary “Learning Visit – Trip to Quezon Province” last June 29-30, spearheaded by DSWD (Department of Social Welfare and Development).

In my title for example, I struggled to use the word “poor” to describe the state of the communities we visited. Is it politically incorrect? I had to think hard about it. To some, it may be. But to me, it’s the best unfiltered description. Why should I minimize or sugar-coat it? That’s the truth. We all know that about half of the Philippines is still in poverty. And if reading any of that bothers you, or makes you uncomfortable in the slightest way, then the more I encourage you to continue reading.
I guess what I mean to say in starting this blog, is it overwhelms me that in a short span of two [eventful] days, I’m able to produce infinite things to share. You can’t blame a guy who has minimal knowledge and involvement in social welfare services, immersion in poor communities, and the like. But my fresh experiences, supplemented by inspiring stories of kind strangers from different walks of life led me to countless realizations and discoveries. Essentially, it gave me a change in perspective on myself as an individual, on people, the government, the world in general, and life as a whole.
Yeah, I know what you’re thinking. It sounds a bit much. It might sound funny or unusual, but allow me to enlighten you, just like how I was. So bear with me as I gather my scattered thoughts to come up with this: a different kind of article touching themes not regularly seen in my blog, yet I believe is important for anyone and everyone to open their minds and hearts to.

I’m not one to throw a bunch of hard facts, numbers, and statistics, that you can easily search on the web. Instead, I’ll be giving food for thought as I bridge out to you the intangible – moving stories of unique individuals supplemented by my personal highlights, to fill in the social gap formed by a lack of awareness and understanding. I’ll leave it to you to take away whatever deeper sense you can get from this.

*Quotations in this article are non-verbatim, english translations that embody the essence of the actual discourse.

With that said, let’s cut to the chase and get on to Day 1’s first stop: Barangay. Pinagdanlayan in Dolores. It is the home of the pilot project of one of DSWD’s programs, Kalahi-CIDSS (Kapit-Bisig Laban sa Kahirapan – Comprehensive and Integrated Delivery of Social Services). The program is a participatory approach aimed to empower residents through engagement in the development of their community.
For the majority of us, health is top priority, just like for the community at Brgy. Pinagdanlayan. That’s why they chose to construct a health center with the generosity of DSWD funding the project back in 2003, and was successfully completed the year after.

I looked outside my window and got a glimpse of the health center as our van slowly came to a stop. My first impression was it didn’t look like much – just another piece of infrastructure. Little did I know, it was a lot more than just that.
In the blue, wearing that shy, yet endearing smile is Barangay Captain Francisca Deliso or better known as “Sally”.  Before being elected as Barangay Captain, she was actually the Barangay Sub-project Management Committee (BSPMC) chair for Kalahi-CIDSS. She had plenty to share about how the entire project transpired, and that’s where I learned how immensely engaged the residents were. From addressing their top needs, planning, designing, to the actual implementation and maintenance of the health center – all for the betterment of their community.
“Actually, I originally wasn’t a volunteer. I’m an OFW. I had no idea that when I’d come back, this [health center project] would be in progress. I didn’t even know what Kalahi-CIDSS was. It was my former husband who was chosen (by the community) to volunteer and lead. The prioritized project was infrastructure. It was good that he was a construction worker, just like all of the other volunteers. But they didn’t expect the project to have an overwhelming amount of seminars, training, and paperwork. That’s where I came in. I became extremely dedicated. Lots of tears were shed. We had countless sleepless nights… But this project materialized to give service to our community’s health problems and we are very thankful for it and the help given to us by DSWD.” – Brgy. Captain Francisca

As she went more into detail of the process they went through, I was astonished by the amount of strength and will power they needed to muster and unite as one community to accomplish the task at hand successfully.
Juncel Reyes is the designated nurse for this particular health center. When asked, around how many people are served on a daily basis, he said that it depends.

“Some days we serve about ten. On other days, it depends. For example when we have recruit monitoring, we try to accommodate them all as much as possible, sometimes reaching about one-hundred kids. And in some cases, we are the ones who go to them.”

Alongside him is midwife volunteer Rovelyn Locus, trained to assist in other work at the health center. Other midwives like her are the volunteers who help with the maintenance and operations. When we asked about how far their service can extend for the community, they explained their limitations.
5“The most common cases here are acute respiratory infections or loose bowel movement. When it’s the rainy season, that’s when more service is needed. Delivering a baby can actually be done here in our facility. However, as much as possible we try to bring them to the main health center, because medication and equipment is more complete there. We are on-call everyday. Our midwives give contact numbers to those expected to give birth within the expected month, so they can easily call and be prioritized at the main health center when the time comes.” – Nurse Juncel Reyes

The main health center is only a ten-minute ride away, according to Nurse Juncel. The fact that they are always on-call, goes to show how much they care about giving the best service to their community, without expecting anything in return.

Though again, it may not look like much, their health center has demonstrated its capability to go beyond its main purpose of serving numerous people in need of healthcare, and in time has evolved into a “safe haven” for the community.8
“I have six kids. They’re grown up now. My youngest is turning nine-years old… When my children aren’t feeling well, I know I can always bring them here. It’s here that I can trust and rely that they can find out what’s wrong when I can’t treat them myself.”

That’s what local resident Nancy Magpantay testified when I chanced upon talking to her. She was with her friend and other local resident, Marites Brudente. They, together with their husbands were part of the successful construction of the health center. Marites added:

“We’re just grateful that this health center was built here – near to our place – because the old one is much farther and not easily accessible. It’s a great relief for us. We can always bring our kids here for their checkups. Sometimes we stop by here just to relieve ourselves of stress. I can talk to people here. It somehow gives us a sense of comfort and security.”
I later on found out that some of Nancy and Marites’ children are beneficiaries of DSWD’s social protection and human development program, Pantawid Pamilyang Pilipino Program or “4Ps”. Basically, the program supports the health, nutrition, and education of children (zero to 18 y/o), with a monthly conditional cash grant to poor families. The conditions, including monthly health checkup of children, school attendance, and monthly Family Development Sessions, are all in the direction of helping alleviate poverty and improving their livelihood. (Click here for more information about the 4Ps.)

“Though sometimes, it really isn’t enough for our everyday needs, it’s still a big help from our government. It’s more than we can ask for and we are grateful for it.”Marites Brudente

“The programs taught and pushed us to improve our livelihood. How to make a living for ourselves, to earn more, and meet our family’s everyday needs.” – Nancy Magpantay

Before saying goodbye to them, I asked them to look into the future, and the two agreed, “if the community were to have another project to materialize, a new high school closer to us would be great, especially for our kids.”
This community in Dolores may be considered as “poor”, but it seems to me that the resident’s healthy, happy, and genuine smiles prove otherwise. That to me, is true wealth.

Candelaria was our next stop, specifically the Barangay Pahinga Sur hall. We arrived just in time to witness one of the components of the 4Ps going on Family Development Sessions (FDS). This happens once a month for the parent-grantees. They’re educated on several topics like budget management, responsible parenthood, children’s rights, disaster preparedness, etc.
THE VALUE OF EDUCATION. Truth be told, there are people who are fortunate enough to have a formal education, yet take it for granted. On the other hand, there are people starving for knowledge, but cannot even afford the basics of human needs – what more, a complete and proper education? I believe that we are always a student, whether inside the walls of a classroom, or outside, under the roof of a barangay hall, perhaps?

After observing their FDS, we were given the chance to ask the 4Ps beneficiaries about their thoughts and experiences on their monthly sessions as a parent-grantee and how it has affected their family households.
“It’s been five years since I’ve been attending these FDS. Personally, I attend for the added helpful knowledge they teach. One of my most significant learnings from the FDS is how to prevent child abuse, because I’ll admit, before I became a member of the [4Ps] program, I would sometimes result to physically hurting my children. But after, I learned it’s wrong and eventually I was able to prevent myself from doing it again. I noticed it made a positive effect on them because they became more obedient.”Leah Manalo

Majority said the reason why they attend is to learn how to properly care for and nurture their families, to pass down their knowledge to their children so they can live better lives. They also mentioned what government agencies they learned about and can ask help from in times when they need it the most, like for healthcare, student scholarships, etc. Being under the 4Ps, their voices are heard. They’re able to get the medical attention they seek, even when they don’t have any money. Unlike before, they wouldn’t be accommodated at all. They became a priority, and that to them is one of the biggest help they’ve received from DSWD and its programs.

Amidst all the women participants of the FDS, was a “thorn among the roses”. He was a scruffy yet jolly looking man who immediately captured my attention with his positive aura. I decided to talk to him to get to know the story behind his big benevolent smile. His name is Mario G. Gonzales – a father of four who values his family and education more than anything.

“I’m here because my wife is an OFW. She’s a domestic helper in Singapore. Eversince we became part of the 4Ps, I’ve been the representative for our family here. We do what we can to help each other and our family. While she works abroad, I also try to make a living here as a tricycle driver. At the same time, I take care of our kids.”

If you think about it, Mario juggles three roles: being the father and mother figure of the family, while trying to make a living for himself as a tricycle driver. There’s no denying that he exceeds the embodiment of what a good parent should be. Because of the circumstances he is in and through the FDS, he learned what gender equality means.

“Just because I’m a man, doesn’t mean I can’t stay at home to raise my children or take care of our food for the day. The same goes for my wife. Even though she’s a woman, it doesn’t mean she can’t be the main breadwinner of our family. I confirmed that learning here.”

He went on and told me more about how their life changed from before being part of the 4Ps, until now.
“Our life was hard. I didn’t have my own tricycle. But I was determined to get one of my own. I needed to help support my children’s education. I knew they were intelligent kids and saw so much potential in them to excel in school. That’s why we work hard to try to get them all to finish school. My wife and I were unable to finish our education and only reached highschool. I remember, we got married at such a young age, with our first child who came when we were still in highschool. We tried working in Manila, where my wife is from. I worked as a guard. It didn’t workout for us so we moved back here. Fortunately we were part of the surveyed families who later became part of the 4Ps. That’s when my wife landed a job abroad, while I was able to learn about educational scholarships offered by the government. They knew we were struggling. That’s why I’m so proud of my kids for getting all three scholarships. Everyone here knows how proud I am. I knew it when I saw their potential.”

You can see it in his eyes, how genuinely happy he was with how far they’ve come, while he continued telling his story. He now boasts of his children’s academic achievements. His two youngest children are still in school. His second child will be graduating soon, while their first child now works as a public school teacher in their barangay. He constantly expressed his thankfulness for the help DSWD and the 4Ps has given them, but he also emphasized an important point, that became my main takeaway from his story.

“Determination and motivation to strive for more means you shouldn’t just rely on what’s being given to you. Don’t stop there. You can take the help being given – big or small – but continue to pursue your dreams. We should persevere. I always tell young ones to prioritize your education before anything, so you can make your dreams come true. My dream is for my kids to finish school and to create a better life for themselves – not relying on anyone. We’re getting old. All I want is for them to have a brighter future.”
I couldn’t leave the place without getting some sort of visual memory of this inspiring man, so I asked Mario if we could take a photo together. He thanked me and said he needed to go home to prepare lunch for his family. He waved goodbye with his signature warm smile, and drove off on what he now proudly calls his own “dream” tricycle – the result of his hardwork, tough love, and perseverance.

Photo above, courtesy of Godly Camitan. Click here to see her blogs from this trip.
And to think this was only half of what happened during the first day.

Like I said, I’m overwhelmed… yet, enlightened. – BOXFACE

New Perspectives: DSWD Learning Visit 2017 (Quezon Province, Calabarzon)

June 29 & 30.
A short video documentation/teaser of what I experienced at the 2-day trip: DSWD (Department of Social Welfare and Development) Learning Visit, 2017.

Read more about it here:…

I could go on and on about what transpired during this trip, but for now I’ll let this short video, with the help of the inspiring people I met, do the talking.

Thank you to the amazing staff of DSWD Region IV-A for this overwhelming and enlightening experience!

*Full vlog/s and blog/s on this trip, to be posted asap.

DAY 2: Baguio City Hits

Check out what went down on our first day in Baguio City if you haven’t already, by clicking here: DAY 1: Baguio City Hits

Second Surprise. After an eventful first day in beautiful Baguio City, we wanted a bit of a more laid-back day. Nothing too much, too extraordinary. Just some quality time with the family. This day we were also checking out of the Hotel Elizabeth to stay at the home of Benguet State University’s President’s place – a past co-worker and friend of my parents.
We started our day off right, of course with our complimentary breakfast buffet. Honestly it was the smell of the unlimited crispy bacon I was originally going to dive into, but there are so many choices that I just had to try everything! Some of the food they served were salad that you can make on your own, beef tapa, sunny-side up eggs, fried rice, assorted bread, french toast and many more!

We then packed all of our stuff and got ready to leave. We were already checking out and our van arrived, so we headed out of the lobby. As we were escorted by the hotel’s manager and lobby men, they all of a sudden stopped our parents (with my dad arguably questioning them) and began to sing… “Happy Anniversary” while bringing out a special dessert plate just for the two love birds! We were surprised as well, because that wasn’t arranged by us. We suspect it was secretly favored by some of our parents co-workers who had already left Baguio. A startling, yet sweet surprise indeed! Thank you Hotel Elizabeth for the exceedingly great accommodation.

Art Appreciation. Benedicto Cabrera, or  “BenCab” is a well-renowned master of contemporary Philippine Art. His paintings and prints have been widely exhibited internationally and he was won numerous awards throughout his career as a fine artist.
The BenCab Museum, situated on 6 Asin Rd., Benguet (15 minutes away from the Baguio City Center) is a way of bringing arts closer to the people. It houses a wide collection of the artist’s work, plus other work from Filipino contemporary masters and on-the-rise artists. Going there was our main agenda for the day, so as a family of art enthusiasts and craftsmen, we were all excited to check it out! It’s been a long time since we’ve all been to a museum too.
I won’t show you much of the artwork shown because you have to see it in person to fully appreciate it. But many of the artwork represents the filipino culture, history, and the museum is also filled indigenous/tribal sculptures and woodwork.
Aside from the artwork, there is a museum shop where you can purchase souvenir items, books and arts & crafts materials. There’s also a small cafe called Cafe Sabel which is at the bottom floor of the museum, overlooking a relaxing view of the forest and pond on the exterior. They boast of their organic menu and food for the soul, where some of the ingredients are actually from BenCab’s farm! Sadly, we didn’t eat here. But I will tell you, the ambiance is so chill and relaxing.

And of course from the Cafe, you can walk down to the pond and garden where you’ll see some of the organic farm produce. This area also showcases indigenous architecture, a river that runs through the property, a hill & forest with an eco-trail, and housing that is the home of farm animals and other livestock.

For more information about the BenCab Museum, visit:

Sadly once again, the weather did not cooperate and the rain began to fall. Good thing we were pretty much done at the museum. From here on, I didn’t take much photos anymore, so I guess I’ll fast-forward to our third morning in Baguio and also the day we left to go back to Makati City. But before that, here’s a photo of a retro 80’s-vibe rain jacket that I was able to get for a steal, at P25 only! Yup, that’s what I was talking about when we went to the Ukay Night Market during our first day in Baguio City.
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Anyway, after about a 6-hour deluxe bus ride back to Makati (where I first experienced using an extremely convenient yet tricky-to-use washroom inside a bus), we had a late lunch. We then went and attended mass at St. John Bosco Parish, which is where my parents got married – perfect for their anniversary. Did a bit more ukay-ukay hunting and I managed to get something nearby (another jacket if you’re wondering… yes, I love jackets). Had dinner at Greenbelt 5, and then to top off the entire weekend-long fam-jam/celebration, we did our last surprise for our parents. We made them a scrapbook/coffee table album of all their recent photos together. Yes, printed photos are better than digital.

I couldn’t have imagined a better way to celebrate my parents anniversary. Everything was a success, and just another memorable experience with the family to treasure. ‘Til our next trip!

Do you know any other cool spots to go in Baguio City? Let me know so we can check it out the next time we go there!